Have you ever wondered what women really notice in a man during their first interaction? If you assume it’s just physical appearance then you might be surprised to learn that they instinctively look for subtle cues that shape their first impression of you, from your fashion sense, to your communication style they notice every minor detail.
If as a man you have only rehearsed the lines you might say when you meet her, you need to know, women are noticing even small details like the colors you wear, to your everyday habits, or even the watch you wear does not go unseen by a woman who is seeking a serious connection.
Here are 13 things many women notice that have very little to do with looks.
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The Way You Carry Yourself
More than what you wear she is going to evaluate how confidently you carry your attire and your accessories. The way your watch rests on your wrist, the way you walk, the way you talk or even how comfortable you feel about yourself.
How You Treat Other People
Nothing attracts a woman more than an empathetic man who is respectful, courteous and well-articulate in all his interactions regardless of who you are talking to. Your kindness with a salesperson, or waiter reveals more about your personality than your discourse with someone you are trying to impress.
Your Sense of Style
If you feel you can’t spend too much on expensive clothes than you may have figured it all wrong, it’s not the price tag of your outfit, cologne or watch brand that leaves a lasting impression but your care to detail, your personal hygiene, your well-fitting outfit and dressing appropriately for the occasion shows that you valued the meeting.
The Watch on Your Wrist
A watch carried gracefully, whether it’s a simple field watch or a dress watch, if worn appropriately, it has the power to intrigue a woman. A watch reflects a man’s personal taste, and maturity. Also, to a woman a man who wears a watch with intentionality glancing at it occasionally shows someone who values time.
Your Personal Grooming
If a man is negligent of his personal hygiene it’s the biggest turn off for a woman. Beyond appearance a woman instantly notices your kempt hair, your trimmed nails. Signs of good hygiene become especially noticeable when these are missing.
Whether You Actually Listen
Men assume women just want to be seen and praised for their beauty, but to women a man who actively listens to her is the most irresistible trait she desires in a man. What’s better than to have a man who puts away all distractions just to listen to her talk? It shows her that she matters.
How Often You Check Your Phone
When a man takes out his phone midway a conversation especially if it’s a topic she seems excited about, this sends off a very negative impression of a man, even if it was just to see the time. This is where a watch can come handy, all you have to do is take a brief glance at it so the conversation continues uninterrupted.
Your Punctuality
Wearing a watch and showing up on time signal your seriousness towards life, your reliability and consideration for her time as well. These are the very qualities that make any connection be it friendship, dating or longer-commitment healthy and long-lasting.
Your Sense of Humor
Women absolutely love men with a good sense of humor. It’s believed laughter is a great way to bond. If you can put a smile on a woman’s face you have a great chance of striking a chord with her.
Your Passion for Something
A man with purpose is incredibly attractive to most women. If you are driven either towards a hobby, a goal, career, or even personal growth she sees that as a sign of curiosity, ambition, and vitality. The added benefit is that you can have conversations about many topics which keeps the conversations engaging.
The Way You Handle Stress
High emotional intelligence is the most sought after trait in a man by most women. If you can stay calm and relaxed under stress she sees you as her ideal partner, someone she can always lean on.
Your Consistency
The secret to building trust is to be a man of words. If you show up consistently when a woman needs you, follow through your promises and prove dependable time and again, she can’t help but fall in love with you.
How You Make People Feel
You may shower her with the most expensive gifts or try to win her heart through grand gestures but what truly stays with a woman is how you made her feel during your time together whether or not you made her feel seen, respected and comfortable being herself.
Final Thoughts
While fashion sense and style convey about your personal taste and choices but there is more to man beyond his physical appearance and the way he carries his outfit or accessories. If you’re a man reading this you must know the women pay close attention to how you talk and behave with everyone besides her, the way you consistently show up to emotionally support her and the way you respect her by allowing her to talk as you listen attentively to her. While grand surprises or good looks can momentarily do the magic, what works in the long-term is your character, your kindness, your empathy, your respect, your healthy communication and your reliability.
The qualities that make you irresistible can’t be bought, they are rather practiced with intentionality.
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